| To The Perfect Mate!! Essay, Research Paper
How To Get Married and Stay Married To The Perfect Mate!!
This book will talk about the ways and theories of how to stay married
one you are married. It will cover stuff like communication, similarity,
physical attractiveness, similarity, balance and equity theory, and proximity.
Communication is important in relationships. I will cover the aspects of
non-verbal and verbal communications. In the book I will convey the differences
in the way men and woman think and this will help give a better understanding of
each other and will in turn allow them to work out their problems effectively…
Another aspect I will talk about is the reinforcement theory. This
theory talks about the fact that you will like someone who positively reinforces
you. I will talk about how this theory can be used in marriages to keep couple
closer together, keeping them liking each other.
In my book, I will also talk about the balance theory. The balance
theory is the notion that people have the same negative and positive ways of
thinking.. When this is not so, you have an imbalance which can disrupt a
relationship. I will talk about how a couple can use the balance theory to make
sure that they will be happy.
Another theory I will talk about is the equity theory. This theory
dictates that people will be more attracted to someone that they have a fair
relationship with. It states that we will be happier with a person who takes as
much as they give to us. Over a long term relationship, like marriage, this is
important because both husband and wife feel that they are approximately equal.
In my book I will talk about how to use this theory to makes sure that both
couples get the same out of the relationship.
I will also talk about proximity in my book. Proximity talks about being
near to your partner. It is important because if one partner is away all the
time, the couple will not become as close. I will deal with the aspect of how to
stay in close proximity with your partner and this will lead to a closer
relationship between the two. It is also important to start a relationship with
someone who is near to you because this will allow the relationship to better
develop itself.
Also, there must be similarity between the couples. In my book I will
talk about finding someone who has similar interests and traits. When two people
are similar, the more likely they are to be attracted to each other and the more
likely they are to be happy while they are dating and when they are married.
The last thing I will talk about in my book is physical attractiveness.
Like most people, physical attractiveness is important to me. Physical
attractiveness is important and in my book I will talk about people thinking
that once they are married that they do not have to look good anymore and I
will also talk about marrying someone who you are attracted to. People have to
continue to take pride in their looks when they are married and this in turn
will make for a happier relationship.
In conclusion, my book will take all the aspects mentioned above into
account which will help people pick the right mate and help them stay married to
this person. I believe this book to be a best seller and look forward to getting
the $100 000 royalty check from you in the near future so I can start writing my
book.
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